The three truths to Self-Concept
Did you know Self-Concept is one of the most powerful things you can work on when manifesting your desires?
Most of the time when you are dealing with something, like a break-up, abusive relationship or court case, we all go to the inner self and start to use our thoughts and have a conversation with our mind. We start asking things like, “why me? Why am I the only one going through this? And, how am I going to get out of this situation?” Every inner conversation we have with ourselves the subconscious mind will magnify these thoughts and bring this into your reality.
In my healing journey I learnt that there were three truths, these three truths to self-concept can set you free of any old story you have created for your-self.
💛 Your story does not end where you currently are, no matter what has happened or happens to you.
Nothing ever stays the same, things are always changing. In fact we all change every day too. You are not the same person you were yesterday. I know for sure I am not the same person I was a year ago, we all have a journey that we go on in life and sometimes people come along to show us a different path that we need, this helps develop our story more into shaping us to be the people we are meant to be. So, let me ask you, what makes you think the current situation you are in won't change.
💛 Define your own story, on your own terms.
We all need to be able to take 100% accountability for our own actions. Sometimes we may find ourselves in an abusive relationship, we don't want to give the abuser an excuse for how we have been treated. But taking responsibility for our part of how we got into that situation can help us see our own patterns that have led us to the point we are currently in. You may have been able to leave the abusive relationship but have found yourself living at a friend's house on a couch. Being able to understand what decisions you made to get you to that point can help you see patterns and help you to change the current story you have for yourself.
I was always told by my mother and ex-husband, I wasn’t worth loving and I was a nobody. The more they said that to me the more I believed it, but this wasn't my story, it was their own insecurities that had been projected onto me. I believed everything they said so much to a point I allowed this to become my story. Once I realised none of this was true I was able to re-write my story and create the one I wanted. As a result of this I am now in an amazing relationship with an amazing man who loves me so deeply and both my children too, I would never have been able to experience this if I had stayed in the current story.
💛 Be your own hero to your story.
The choice is yours, you are the author of your own story. You get to decide how it ends, you can either stay where you currently are and carry on self sabotaging yourself or you can stand up and create a new story for yourself and be the hero of your own book.
Whatever you pay attention to in life, that is what will show up more in life. So focus on what you want to create rather than what you don’t want to create. We know what we don’t want and often give more focus to this but do we really know what we do want? Focusing more on the wants and desires will attract more of this in to your life.
I hope this helps,
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